so i figure that i don’t have much to post these days because it’s hard to get fired up about writing. i just don’t feel the need to express myself anymore in this media sometimes, but other times i need it for an outlet. i know other people read this, but at the same time don’t really, just looking for something to occupy a coupe of minutes before a download is finished or something, or end up here by accident looking for “masterbating sluts”. i make these thoughts public, but not really i suppose, it’s not like anyone comments on my blogs, they’re mostly for me and anyone who cares enough to pick through this crap hoping to find something insightful, which is unlikely at best.
why all the self-depreciation? is it that deeply ingrained, or does it stem from the fact that i figure people have about as short an attention span as i do, and aren’t really that interested in anything much longer than a sound bite. getting across alot with a little takes alot of skill and talent, hence people who can do it well actually write and get published or become politicians. i of course have no such aspirations, and figure that everyone else who blogs is of the same idea. most random blogs i look at are pretty mundane, but i figure most of them are younger than me as well. i remember when i sort of cared about things. it wasn’t too much different from the way things are now, because i figure that i don’t care enough in the first place to give it much thought. but the idea of not caring is such an oxymoron that i get sick of even thinking about it, there’s more important things to do like go running or read a book or simply exisiting.
my brain just got tired, something burned out in it a year ago, i can tell, but i’m not sure what it was. everything around me seemed less wonderous, not that things don’t hold wonder for me, but it just seemed like anything can happen in this world, anything. if you look around at every passing person you see, they have problems, just like you. most of them are probably worse than the problems i have, but it’s all pretty subjective.
maybe that’s what it was, being subjective as opposed to objective, being objective seems to concrete for me, while subjectiveness rules everything around me it seems like.
ob·jec·tive (b-jktv) adj.
1. Of or having to do with a material object.
2. Having actual existence or reality.
3.
a)Uninfluenced by emotions or personal prejudices: an objective critic.
b)Based on observable phenomena; presented factually: an objective appraisal.
sub·jec·tive (sb-jktv) adj.
1.
a) Proceeding from or taking place in a person’s mind rather than the external world: a subjective decision.
b) Particular to a given person; personal: subjective experience.
2. Moodily introspective.
3. Existing only in the mind; illusory.
i can see how it would be easy to confuse the two, seeing as concrete things come from perceptions of our mind, but i suppose it’s hard to be compassionate if you’re objective all the time. it seems like the two are exclusive of eachother, but everyone tries to mix them to varying degrees.
i guess i just feel that the subjective is much more powerful than the objective because i succumb to it easier. and therein lies the problem. i don’t have a goal to be objective or subjective though, so there’s gotta be something else to strive for,but i’m unsure how to label it. there has to be some medium between the two that exisits, but it’s as of yet out of my grasp.
basically i’m just motivated to try, it’s not like anything is spectacularily wrong with my life, so if it ain’t broke, don’t fix it. hardship will bring flux, but creating hardship for yourself doesn’t help, it helps stagnate you even further.
i think stagnation has a bad rap, much in the same way sex does. everyone wants to do it, but it’s kinda looked down on. of course too much is bad, but then, that’s subjective, right? i just feel my life is already full and planned and going where it needs to go, but there’s always something to hurry or push you.obligations to something or someone can be powerful motivation.
dammit, i don’t even know what i’m talking about anymore, i’m just rattling down thoughts that barely make sense to me in hopes that it will make sense. most of the time when i write things down they make more sense, that’s what i think this page is for, because writing for an audience makes me feel like i hav to try and explain it to other people, which ends up being myself. this time it’s not working out very well. i just can’t seem to sort them out yet, probably because i’m forcing it. but if i don’t force it, i’m gonna have to wait for some sort of inspiration, and those are coming less and less frequently now.
i guess i feel like i know i don’t have everything figured out, but at the same time, it doesn’t feel like there should have to be anything to figure out in the first place. exsisting from day to day is no way to live, but feels like the only option.
i mean, what other choices do you have besides deciding to exsist?