“Some things you miss because they’re so tiny you overlook them. But some things you don’t see because they’re so huge.”
I got that quote from Robert Pirsig and that book i just finished, and i turned it over in my head about a million times. it made me think about everything i think about. all the things that i take for granted, all of the things i don’t question, and everything i know.
i thought about it because i read ben’s blog, and that was what popped into my head. he was right in the fact that answers have to be self discovered, and the fact that this quote is so broad as to be almost cliche gives it its meaning.
it popped into my head because i wanted to help advise him, to show him things that i have come to discover, but realized it was pointless. not because ben wouldn’t accept it, but because it would not have the same meaning. with these kind of issues, the search is far more important than the end result and i feel like this quote is the only guideline i ever needed.
most of what i know is imported from books, because i relate better to them. i can expand my ideas through discussion, but more often than not, those are just battles of wits. i steal these ideas and incorporate them into me consciously or subconsciously, and these words of wisdom guide me on my quest.
when you go on this search, you have no idea what is tiny and what is huge. you just know that these details you amass are important in some way, be they small or large. the longer you search, the more pieces you gain and the more perspective you gain. when it comes together, it comes together in the terms you have dictated (whether you like it or not) , and everything fits together much better.
while the quote is fairly important to things i have recently discovered, it was the implications that i wanted to pass it on to someone else. here i am with all my stolen ideas (stolen for my own purposes) trying to pass them on. the parts i think are good without all the filler. those ideas are important to me because i got the whole picture though, and a quote can never contain that much meaning, only a sound bite. which is why the search is so important. this guideline for my search suits me fine, but others, i have no idea.
i realize this now, and there’s nothing i hate more than unsolicited advice. because really, how can you talk about these things, these things that are so deeply personal as to wonder how you could ever relate it to anyone without diluting it? the essence of you as a person, as a soul, to be discussed? how is this possible? these discoveries of yours are for you alone, and no one else. if others want to know what you think, they will ask for it but they will not recieve what it is that you discovered because that discovery is a piece of you, and how you define yourself. it may help them on their search, but not in the same way.
persuaision. i’ve never liked it. and the more i think about it, the more i dislike it. it’s what makes people want to share ideas with you, not as the pure ideas that they are, but the interpretation of them. i’m not even sure you can have a pure idea. a copy of a copy of a copy. but there’s no way to get around this slant, all the information i have absorbed is a copy of a copy of a copy. but i take the ones i like and catalog them because they seem important to me.
and that’s it.
the huge part of the puzzle i was missing was that i figure (for now) that my values define my reality. where those values comes from, that’s another huge piece to find. the search is always on, but i feel heartened. answeres are revealed as i am ready for them and not a moment sooner, and this blog serves me as my memory cannot, organizes my thoughts as my mind struggles, and has been the internal me for years now.
thanks, ben.